Team advisory board message
To all the cherished grandchildren of Bartholomew Kalabai,
Let this message serve as a heartfelt call to the spirit of unity that should bind us, the descendants of a shared legacy. Our grandfather, Bartholomew Kalabai, planted a seed of kinship, and it is our responsibility to nurture its growth into a strong and flourishing tree.
To make unity prevail amongst us, we must actively seek connection and understanding. Let us make a conscious effort to reach out to cousins we may not know well, or those with whom contact has faded. A simple phone call, a message, or a planned visit can be the first step in rebuilding bridges and fostering a sense of belonging.
Socializing with each other is the lifeblood of our family bond. Let's be intentional about creating opportunities to gather, share stories, and build new memories. This could be through:
Regular Family Gatherings: Plan annual or bi-annual events, be it a picnic, a festive celebration, or a simple get-together at a family home.
Utilizing Technology: Create a dedicated online platform (a social media group, a messaging group) which we already have where we can share updates, photos, and engage in conversations, regardless of geographical distance.
Organizing Interest-Based Groups: If there are shared hobbies or interests (e.g., cooking, sports, history), forming smaller groups can provide more intimate settings for interaction.
The name and spirit of the family that was vibrant before lives within our collective memory. To return to that strength, we must:
Share Our History: Encourage the older generations to recount stories of our family's past, traditions, and values. Documenting these narratives will ensure they are passed down to future generations.
Uphold Family Values: Identify the core principles that were important to our ancestors and consciously strive to embody them in our interactions and decisions.
Support Each Other: Be a source of strength and encouragement for one another during times of joy and hardship.
To keep our family group moving to the next step, let us consider these relevant ideas:
Establish a Family Directory: Create a comprehensive list of all descendants, including contact information and key family history.
Organize Family Projects: Undertake initiatives together, such as contributing to a charitable cause in the family name or working on a family history project.
Invest in Future Generations: Support the education and growth of the younger grandchildren through mentorship or a family education fund.
Create a Family Constitution (Informal): Collaboratively define the values, goals, and ways of communication for our family group.
Rotate Leadership/Coordination: Share the responsibility of organizing events and initiatives to ensure broad participation and fresh perspectives.
The strength of our family lies in our unity, our connections, and our shared heritage. Let us actively cultivate these aspects and build a future where the name of Bartholomew Kalabai continues to represent a strong, supportive, and interconnected lineage. The time to reconnect, to socialize, and to reclaim our family's vibrant spirit is now. Let's make it happen, together.
Compiled by Moses Wanyama
Team Advisor
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